We humans are not easy to understand. Yet I find comfort in the wisdom left behind by philosophers and experts, who provide us with tools to help us navigate our complexities in life.
Another idea I have been practising for a while now is that to be in charge of our lives, we must stick to our commitments and words.
It’s such a simple concept: if I stick with what I say and what I commit to, life becomes so much easier. However, it’s not easy to implement.
I remember when I started using a notebook to plan my days; Initially, I had to be mindful almost all the time of the things I said and committed to.
It was like learning a new language, requiring constant attention. But over time, it has become part of my identity.
The challenge is that I now expect the same from others. That’s where it gets tricky.
As social animals, we love to talk about almost everything. However, if I am dealing with someone not in charge of their words, it becomes difficult for me to trust that person completely.
In just a few interactions, I can often sense that this person isn’t aware of what he or she is saying or committing, which leads to a lack of trust on my end.
Of course, it’s not that simple — and naturally, I don’t always get it right either. As humans, we’re all a work in progress — learning, unlearning, and trying again.
I believe that’s how psychological trust operates. It’s fascinating, isn’t it? But it complicates interactions with others.
How do you ensure you are in charge of your words?
What strategies keep you accountable?
The learning continues…☺️
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